Love?

Yea, cuz I think I'm in love with my boyfriend. I can't stop thinking bout him and I want to spend every minute of every day with him. He makes me laugh and he likes me for who I am.... In short, i think I feel the same way you do about your guy friend as I do about my boyfriend. I like it.

How can I tell if he Loves me back or not?

If I wanted him to love me, would my mind create things to try and make me believe that it was true? It happened before...

True love wants only good for the person loved even if it requires self-sacrifice. Is is not just an emotion but a commitment that is demonstrated through actions. Emotions come and go, but real love makes a choice to do good to the other person even when you don't feel like it. Real love will also not do anything that might damage the one loved such as asking to have sex with you without making a lifelong commitment to marriage. You could become pregnant, you could get a sexually transmitted disease, it could seriously mess up your life. If he really loves you, he will not ask you to do that before he offers to marry you. Other wise, he is using you for free sex. You get nothing out of it except warm feelings at the beginning and heartbreak later when he leaves you for some new girl.

Real love is always patient with the other person. It is always kind. It is unselfish. It doesn't envy the other person. It doesn't boast about it's own accomplishments. It's not arrogant. It doesn't seek it's own good but the good of the other person. It's not easily angered. It doesn't hold a grudge. Real love always protects, trusts, and believes the best about the other person. Most importantly, it never fails. Warm, fuzzy feelings come and go but love will choose to love no matter how it feels and it will never do anything that's not in the best interest of the other person.