ok im bi, alot of people know that, but i dont know why my parents ae so against it, my dad and stepmom said that they would be a little uncomfortabble if they found out i was bi, as they dont now, neither does my reall mom. and my real mom and her stupid ass boyfriend always make fun of people who are bisexual or homosexual, they think that it is disgusting and not right, and now i dont know what to do, i know some of my friends are bi, but is it actually wrng, because i am starting o think that it is, but what would i kow, im not really that smart anyways... my mo told me that she would rather disown her child then know that they are homosexual or bisexual, now i feel really bad, not that i really care whenther she would disown me or not, not after all that the bitch did to me, but still im so confused... am i wrong, or something, i dont know what to do, and i would eally like some help...
You're not wrong.
There's nothing wrong with being bisexual or homosexual, you don't choose who you fall in love with, afterall. Love is love, regardless of gender.
You also don't have to tell your parents until you're ready or in a really serious relationship with a girl.
If I were you, I'd keep it a secret from them, but that's just what I would do.
Angelless, it depends on what you mean by bisexual. Different people mean different things. A lot of people think if they feel sexual attraction to someone of the same sex, they are bisexual or homosexual.
To others, bisexual means you do sexual acts with members of both sexes.
Let me show the difference this way. A guy marries a girl and they have a great relationship. But one of the women the husband works with is really pretty, and one of the men the wife works with is funny and attractive. So the husband and wife may feel sexual attraction to their coworkers. (Some people think that is "falling in love," and you can't stop that attraction.)
There is nothing wrong with the sexual attraction they feel, but if they act on it by having sex with the people they are attracted to, that's wrong. That's adultery. They would be breaking their promises to each other and hurting each other deeply. Also, of course, it would be a sin in God's eyes.
So instead, they resist the temptation, try not to think about those other people in a sexual way, and focus on each other and having a great time in their relationship.
In the same way, acting on a sexual desire for someone of the same sex is wrong. But having that desire isn't necessarily wrong. It is not a normal desire. It can result from an unusual hormone level. It can also come from a person's experiences. Some women who have been abused by a man tend to recoil from sex with a man, and the desire turns more toward women. Some men who never found acceptance from their fathers and learned to identify more with women may find a sexual desire for other men. It can be caused by other factors too.
What guy with a girlfriend hasn't desired her sexually? But if he respects her and is committed to waiting until he is at the point in his life where he can take care of her, he isn't going to act on that desire. To give in to that temptation would be wrong. And waiting for sex until they are both mature enough to make the lifelong commitment of marriage will give them better sex lives than if they had sex earlier.
I totallt agree dont worry what any one else thinks. Its your life live it the way you want to. If your bi that should be cool with yur parents. Parents shouldnt disown their child because of their sexuality.
To those who say bisexuality or homosexuality is a fine personal choice, I have a question. Do you believe in right and wrong, or is everything ok? And if you believe some things are wrong, how do you determine what is right and what is wrong?
Or put another way, what is your moral compass?
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