Ok my boyfriend is moving back to Canada and wants me to still be his girlfriend, but I said that I would stop cutting and I didn't. I don't want him to know but Idon't want to hide it from h im either what should i do?
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Confused?
Ok my boyfriend is moving back to Canada and wants me to still be his girlfriend, but I said that I would stop cutting and I didn't. I don't want him to know but Idon't want to hide it from h im either what should i do?
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Confused?
For any relationship to last, there needs to be honesty and openness. So I would tell him you haven't stopped but you want to. Ask him to hold you accountable.
Sometimes having someone hold you accountable in some area of your life is one of the best ways to overcome a problem. But when you have an accountability partner, you have to promise yourself that you will tell him when you fail without him asking. That's the only way it can help you. You will have to be honest with him, but a relationship that isn't honest isn't worth having.
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